Groupism..

Just when you think that the sail's been set smooth and the gust of wind has finally been caught for a speedy underway, in it's often so innocuous way, disparity seems to set in which suddenly seems to rock your boat.

I really do fail to understand the why's and the what's of an entity's dynamics which supports and hopes to thrive on setting people out into groups and then letting them be, as is often the case when kids are selecting amongst themselves for a match of cricket. While the team is being set out, each one of us fervently prays to get chosen before the rest, to become a part of something "glorious" while the underdogs see the resigned look when cold calculating eyes are appraising to which one out of the stock would cause minimum damage.

While in adulthood, this sort of a pyramid is still followed; often at times certain wildflowers are shunned away into a certain corner, the feeling being that they obviously belong together.

An unfair decision some might cry out in indignation, while others might simply say its the natural course of actions. Either way, it is quite annoying and most certainly extremely unsettling.

Resolve to keep that resolution...

It’s that time of the year, when everyone is planning how to improve themselves for the new year. This post is dedicated to new year’s resolution, but what about those of us who have no interest in bettering ourselves in '10 and do not really see a reason to start now in 2100?

Maybe you’re lazy or just perfect. If a traditional new year’s resolution doesn’t strike your fancy, why not consider a different kind of challenge? Try out one of these magnificently self-destructive new year’s resolutions and be on your way to an epically disastrous new year.

Typical Resolution: Lose weight or get in shape
Deliciously destructive alternative: Gain 200 lbs in 12 months
Why: Because it tastes good






















Typical Resolution: Find true love
Deliciously destructive alternative: Become the evil one in a toxic relationship
Why: Bad boys and girls get laid more.


















Typical Resolution: Save money or get out of debt
Deliciously destructive alternative: Live way, way, wayyyy beyond your means
Why: Because you know Obama or your dad will bail you out
















Typical Resolution: Spend more time with your family
Deliciously destructive alternative: Spend more time with your secretary
Why: Sex, why else? (do you really need another reason after this one!!)

One Drunken Night...

The one glance, the one look, the one moment when my world shook made me realize what we mistook while setting our life afoot. As she breezed by my mind went numb, the din dropped down and I just shook.
It's been a long time since we both took our future, our lives to be the story of a book. My dear, oh dear I am a big fool to still think of you and the way you looked.
As I stared in your eyes, and felt your heartbeat the joyous world was all upbeat. Little did I know what life had in store and how everything would just become just another chore. Now the world's at my feet but it's my heart that still beats for the one that left me incomplete.
Your touch, your smile would light up a fire, growing old by your side was all that I desired. But fate transpired fuelling my fire leaving my life in a state of mire. You were not to be mine was God's design and while I looked on you just went off fine.

Chances Given...

So as life would have it, I am one of those who's not known to give up till my battery of effort is exhausted completely and then some more. And as fate would have it in the recent past my efforts have led me to two distinct discoveries, both leading to a completely changed perspectives.
The one thing that you didn't like and openly declared you wouldn't do cause it was simply desestable to your taste is now fast becoming a fond reality. Opposed to the one thing that was professed to be an unconditional love is speeding towards becoming a faded memory.
What's ironic about this entire situation is that it is the same series of events that have led to this discovery of opposing nature.
Makes me really think about how frivolous our emotions and feelings are no matter how adamant we say to "no" to the change around us, a morning will most certainly come when our thoughts would transcend across the opposing boundaries and pitch us across on the other side of the playing field.